tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post8952150584157722837..comments2023-10-15T01:12:39.385-07:00Comments on Get In The Car!: Misunderstood and MiserableJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02086167716210736774noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-16016723841347192762007-12-19T21:16:00.000-08:002007-12-19T21:16:00.000-08:00I agree -- VERY insecure woman.(but that kind of t...I agree -- VERY insecure woman.<BR/><BR/>(but that kind of thing eats at me too, no matter how much i try to tell myself i don't care)Cathy, Amy and Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01472486650115997239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-60792514657991040972007-12-19T14:19:00.000-08:002007-12-19T14:19:00.000-08:00Well, she'd better grow a tougher skin pretty damn...Well, she'd better grow a tougher skin pretty damned soon. Bah-- it clearly has nothing to do with you-- but I totally understand your frustration and concern. Sounds like your real friend has your back, though.BipolarLawyerCookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00718892727028970068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-16797368709039369802007-12-18T22:49:00.000-08:002007-12-18T22:49:00.000-08:00Forgave you? LORD. What a bizarre situation. I ...Forgave you? LORD. What a bizarre situation. I wish I could be a fly on the wall in her brain for a minute. Okay. I don't want to be a fly, and her brain might be scary...Orangeblossomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14163068826182803975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-13703679955226975402007-12-18T20:24:00.000-08:002007-12-18T20:24:00.000-08:00gah. well, as annoying as it all is - I'm kinda gl...gah. <BR/><BR/>well, as annoying as it all is - I'm kinda glad S called you and all rather than fuming and bitching about you to the rest of the world - At least she rose above the 4th grade ... a tiny bit ... and probably won't be prank calling you any time soon.<BR/><BR/>but forgive? puhleeze. Maybe, "sorry I forgot to take my midol and took it out on you, sorry I was a tool" but forgive? *eye roll*dawn224https://www.blogger.com/profile/12261307900362127378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-41181448847013545862007-12-18T20:03:00.000-08:002007-12-18T20:03:00.000-08:00Don't you just love women sometimes? You can't re...Don't you just love women sometimes? You can't really win most of the time. I think if people want to get all dramatic about stuff they are gonna do it and they will drag you into their theatrics if we allow them - right? Don't stress too much over it - it's a little crazy. Take care and I'll see you soon. KellanKellanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07882991320065439298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-86350329052013811712007-12-18T19:10:00.000-08:002007-12-18T19:10:00.000-08:00OMG, so glad that you found my blog.....though not...OMG, so glad that you found my blog.....though not sure how you did! How did you find it on the FINAL day of a 450+ day deployment???<BR/><BR/>But this was just funny. Being in education as a teacher and administrator....kids can just be mean! <BR/><BR/>say it with me...."take the high road".....nope, say it again...."I WILL take the high road". It would be so easy to sink to her level...but it is so in the past!tommiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09744207550343647140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-35992449955870416782007-12-18T17:04:00.000-08:002007-12-18T17:04:00.000-08:00Egads, that does sound obnoxious. Yet you handled ...Egads, that does sound obnoxious. Yet you handled it so gracefully. I, too, would start to distance the relationship.<BR/><BR/>And *crickets*? Brilliant!MamaGeek @ Works For Ushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09563543041234527282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-101659909952493662007-12-18T16:23:00.000-08:002007-12-18T16:23:00.000-08:00I sympathize- my entire junior high years were ter...I sympathize- my entire junior high years were terrorized by a melissa who gave me a friendship bracelet and then promptly took it back. I cried and cried. My older sister bought me a replacement bracelet but it was not the same and those girls tortured me for years. (I am sure that I was super sensitive but it hurt all the same) I hated those years and would not do it over ever again.....amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02775497356720247278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-31917380003994006072007-12-18T12:55:00.000-08:002007-12-18T12:55:00.000-08:00Ugh! I've got that nervous tummy feeling just rea...Ugh! I've got that nervous tummy feeling just reading this. I TOTALLY know what you mean. I hate misunderstandings with a middle man involved. <BR/><BR/>Still though...I can't believe she hung up on you. That seems pretty rude. And childish.Tootsie Farklepantshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18336671002327112885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-40521139318651660182007-12-18T12:44:00.000-08:002007-12-18T12:44:00.000-08:00Ugh, misunderstandings really bug me, and my whole...Ugh, misunderstandings really bug me, and my whole relationship with my mother in law seems to be based on her taking what I say the wrong way. So I avoid her as much as possible!<BR/><BR/>Lela<BR/>http://whomadethismess.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-48000967548870002372007-12-18T10:49:00.000-08:002007-12-18T10:49:00.000-08:00Oh gad I would have had the exact same reaction, i...Oh gad I would have had the exact same reaction, including posting about it because if I didn't I'd obsess endlessly and drive everyone around me crazy with my snippiness!<BR/><BR/>Hopefully you'll be able to let it go now that it's out.Candyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14070433904661239686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-16508645604037641032007-12-18T10:40:00.000-08:002007-12-18T10:40:00.000-08:00I always say I hate to me misquoted. (especially ...I always say I hate to me misquoted. <BR/><BR/>(especially by 60 Minutes)Audubon Ronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01416502283861536402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-60853652773853053092007-12-18T08:57:00.000-08:002007-12-18T08:57:00.000-08:00I agree, she's very insecure. That really sucks! ...I agree, she's very insecure. That really sucks! I hate being accused of things I didn't do too. Similar things happened to me in high school. I think it's made me a revengeful person sometimes.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07389148318166547545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-85299800607823899832007-12-18T08:33:00.000-08:002007-12-18T08:33:00.000-08:00Oh, that is a very, very insecure woman.Emily ROh, that is a very, very insecure woman.<BR/><BR/>Emily RAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-71665384362248189042007-12-18T08:14:00.000-08:002007-12-18T08:14:00.000-08:00As a professional sarcast-ess, I put myself in sit...As a professional sarcast-ess, I put myself in situations like this all the time. Some people are just oddly over sensative and defensive. <BR/><BR/>Sounds like S has some issues with insecurity. It's not your fault, even though I know it's eating you alive right now. <BR/><BR/>Hope this all blows over soon.Sarcasta-Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00481007617535972530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-59671056254343624732007-12-18T07:19:00.000-08:002007-12-18T07:19:00.000-08:00Oh how I hated high school... hopefully your frien...Oh how I hated high school... hopefully your friend will snap out of it and realize you only had positive thoughts during your conversation with the other mutual friend. To hang up on you... oh boy!Carrie @carrieloveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10862082515784146373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-88642027448141071722007-12-18T06:52:00.000-08:002007-12-18T06:52:00.000-08:00You know, this is about HER, not you. REALLY. Ju...You know, this is about HER, not you. REALLY. Just go on and act as if this never happened. Making any more of it will fuel her desire for the attention.<BR/><BR/>In my humble opinion, of course.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-59916578699568289202007-12-18T06:48:00.000-08:002007-12-18T06:48:00.000-08:00Wow. You handled that much more gracefully than I...Wow. You handled that much more gracefully than I would have. I'm pretty sure the word "whatever" would have come out of my mouth at some point. Or it would have wanted to, cuz I don't know if I'm that brave. <BR/>The world would be a much better place if people would just GET A SENSE OF HUMOR about themselves. Laugh! Ya know, HA HA?<BR/>I don't blame you for being p'ed about having to apologize. WTH? There really is nothing to apologize for. <BR/>Anyway, try and get it out of your head. Every rational person can see you did no wrong. :)Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339665205284492242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-10563042661857705082007-12-18T05:13:00.000-08:002007-12-18T05:13:00.000-08:00I'm glad to have found your blog, Jen. I hate whe...I'm glad to have found your blog, Jen. I hate when adults think they're still in the sandbox or on the playground!debrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17676300309029588465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-31879645639310893362007-12-18T04:18:00.000-08:002007-12-18T04:18:00.000-08:00I'm sure you've said in one of your messages that ...I'm sure you've said in one of your messages that if you'd wanted the job, you could have had it. Eventually, that will sink in with her. Sometimes we need to move away from an "incident" before it can get processed fully.<BR/><BR/>Then again, some people need to hold onto their grudges.<BR/><BR/>Only time will tell. :)<BR/><BR/>PS I had a very similar 4th grade experience. I completely sympathize.AuthorMomWithDogshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11523380928224419330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-64017911839570079722007-12-17T23:52:00.000-08:002007-12-17T23:52:00.000-08:00Oh, the drama. I hate women like that. How you k...Oh, the drama. I hate women like that. How you kept your cool - I have no idea...TheOneTrueSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04756132396031048647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-51602917939676928622007-12-17T21:45:00.000-08:002007-12-17T21:45:00.000-08:00Oh goodness do I know what you are feeling. I hav...Oh goodness do I know what you are feeling. I have two close friends whose whole twisted, triangle of a friendship ended up like that. In the end, I was just explaining & explaining and they weren't believing me... and things were getting worse the more I tried to explain. I apologized for things I don't even think I should have, but no matter... it didn't help. They still had their own opinions on the subject & believed each other's versions of the story instead of mine. It eats me up. I'm clearly too sensitive. I bet if I would have let it lie... and not tried to explain the crap out of it... things would be fine today. Oh well, you live & you learn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-66273448018284774212007-12-17T20:41:00.000-08:002007-12-17T20:41:00.000-08:00you have the grace of angels.you have the grace of angels.Girlplustwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07056576921114387218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-53641547811596131742007-12-17T20:33:00.000-08:002007-12-17T20:33:00.000-08:00Arg! I hate that kind of shit, and why are women/...Arg! I hate that kind of shit, and why are women/girls always doing it? I swear I don't! And that 4th grade girl - let's get her!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1668957788371173816.post-63945711998049352982007-12-17T20:10:00.000-08:002007-12-17T20:10:00.000-08:00How big of her to forgive you for absolutely nothi...How big of her to forgive you for absolutely nothing....flutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.com